12 April 2026
Hair oiling bukan sekadar sapu minyak dekat rambut. Dengan cara yang betul benda ni boleh jadi self-care ritual yang bantu pulihkan kesihatan rambut dari akar sampai hujung đ Tapi dalam post ini aku bukan nak ajar cara macam mana. Aku nak suggest 5 hair oils yang terbaik untuk rambut korang.
5. Minyak Amla (Gooseberry India)
Hair oiling nampak simple tapi kalau konsisten memang boleh ubah keadaan rambut secara natural. Tak perlu produk mahal pun. Yang penting rutin, konsisten dan cara kau betul.
Kalau kau tengah cari cara untuk glow up rambut tanpa salon mahal, this might be your sign to start đ¸
30 March 2026
Spend Less and Save More
I've been managing my money poorly and often end up shortchanging myself by dipping into my savings to buy things I don't truly need. Knowing that I have easy access to those funds makes it all the more important for me to be disciplined. My plan is to create a budget that focuses on my essential expenses while keeping unnecessary spending in check. This approach will help me build my savings for future goals and unexpected emergencies.
Workout Daily After Work
I used to hop on the treadmill two to three days a week but now I’m really excited to create a regular workout routine that keeps me active at least five times a week! I want to make sure I'm moving my body every day. A few months back, I had some irregularities with my period and even missed it for three months. I think my weight gain may have played a part in that and there's a chance I could have PCOS. So, I'm focusing on shedding some pounds for the sake of my health and I’m determined to make this change!
Set Aside at Least One Hour to Read
I used to read a lot of books and I genuinely miss that fulfilling feeling I experienced when I finished one. In recent years, I've only managed to read about five books a year, maybe just one or two. I want to rekindle my love for reading again. I plan to set aside at least an hour each day for books that capture my interest and aid in my personal growth. This could mean designating a specific time for reading, such as before bed or during lunch breaks, to help turn it into a regular habit.
Declutter and Aim to Live with Less
I want to embrace a lifestyle of minimalism. Ever since I discovered this way of living, I've been captivated by the idea of having less. While I know it can be challenging, I am determined to pursue it. I truly want to simplify my life. I plan to sort through my belongings and declutter my space, keeping only what I genuinely need and cherish. I've already begun this process and aim to donate items to those in need. My goal is to cultivate a more peaceful environment and foster a mindset focused on intentional living.
Get Enough Sleep
I know I've been sleeping late every day. It's time to prioritise adequate sleep which is crucial for my overall well-being. I will aim for at least seven to eight hours of quality sleep each night by establishing a consistent bedtime routine and creating a restful sleeping environment.
Cut Down on Sugar and Eat Healthily
Let’s focus on healthier eating. I seldom consume soda or sugary drinks, but I do have a sweet tooth and enjoy cakes, kuih, and bread. However, as someone managing PCOS, I need to be intentional about my meals and avoid anything that could worsen my condition. It’s essential for me to incorporate more hearty meals and reduce my intake of sweet treats. By making these changes, I hope to cultivate a healthier, more balanced lifestyle that aligns with my values and goals.
Wish me luck!
29 March 2026
Lately life feels like a hollow shell. Im lost, unsure where to begin or what to reach for. Some days, I ache to do everything at once, while other days, I crave nothing at all. Living in this tug-of-war is draining. Decisions slip through my fingers and my mind goes blank when the world feels too heavy. I long to ground myself in something real yet my reality is so quiet with no one nearby to invite over for matcha latte or to swap favorite books. I miss that simple, shared warmth. I feel like I barely have friends these days. The ones I do have are wrapped up in marriage and kids, so asking them to hang out even once a week feels impossible. That’s why I’m teaching myself to do everything solo, though sometimes the loneliness sneaks up on me.
I genuinely enjoy my own company and find comfort in solitude. But still, I am just a human and I ache for genuine connection. I cant help but envy those with close-knit circles of friends, wishing I could have that too without forcing myself to fit in or worrying about being judged.
I crave a fresh start. I long for a steady routine, something I can truly commit to. Because I am the kind of person that cant live without a plan. My days will drift aimlessly like a boat tossed on restless waves.
Last January, I reached out to a psychiatrist for an ADHD screening, certain that something deep within me was out of place. Instead, the doctor revealed a different truth. After hearing my story, he said I might be carrying anxiety and high-functioning depression, not ADHD. The realization struck me like a wave. I move through life as if I am unscathed, but beneath the surface, I am covered in invisible wounds and bruises. Since that session, I keep asking myself: am I truly okay, or am I just wearing a mask of being okay? In that moment, I saw how I had been feeding myself empty positivity, weaving a web that only tangled me further. Sucks.
Where do I even begin to rewrite my story? How do I step out of this maze and into something new?
24 December 2025
It was a delightful journey filled with joy and good vibes. I took my first steps into the blogging world back in 2009. Over the years, I’ve created countless blog names and URLs, and I'm crossing my fingers that this one will become my home. While I don't update my blog often, it's not due to boredom; rather I sometimes find myself at a loss for words. I worry that the repetitive of my daily routine might lead my writing to feel dull and uninteresting. I honestly don't really much to share.
But I really wanna start to dive back into writing, to fill my days doing my favourite things cause blogging once filled my heart with joy. Now I spend most of my time playing games for hours and I realize that I somehow feels a little bit burnt out hence why I am making a delibrate effort to squeeze blogging into my schedule.
I truly hope that other bloggers will make a return as well. It would be wonderful to see more personal lifestyle posts from them. I want to learn about their favorite things, the delicious foods they’ve enjoyed, their latest shopping hauls and the experiences that have influenced them. In short, I crave writing that reflects themselves rather than just a summary of drama.
Lets start again and say hello to each other through blogwalking!
Till here then. Xoxo ~
21 December 2025
As I take a moment to reflect on the intricacies of my daily life, it becomes increasingly clear that there are numerous aspects that in need of change and adjustment. This year has been quite a roller coaster for me as it is filled with ups and downs but I wouldn’t say it was entirely bad or good. That's just how life goes, right? Some events unfolded for a reason while others were just unfortunate moments. Yet I can’t help but feel thankful for both experiences as many say that every situation has its lessons. Embracing this mindset allows me to grow and evolve, helping me navigate the complexities of my journey with a sense of purpose and resilience.
I find joy in gathering these moments. They serve as gentle reminders in the midst of life's chaos, providing us with solace, connection, and a profound sense of meaning. Here's to another collection of the moments I've picked up this year.
ěź. In April, I had the wonderful opportunity to visit Seoul with my family. I even bought a brand new pair of boots (I love boots!) thinking, of course, that the lingering chill of winter was behind us and that vibrant flowers would be blooming all around. However I couldn’t have been more mistaken. To my dismay, it was still quite chilly despite winter supposedly being over. We enjoyed a full week there filled with beautiful sights and experiences except for one little hiccup. I can’t help but feel betrayed by the snow which decided to reappear just as we left the country. It hardly seems fair! I've been yearning to see the fresh snow again since my last visit in 2018, but alas, it escaped me once more. Perhaps next time will hold better luck!
ě´. I began my gaming journey in March and it’s incredible how quickly my travel budget vanished into building a gaming PC. Those expenses were substantial yet I truly don’t regret a single penny spent. I often said that once I got my hands on those games, there would be no turning back. Well, that prophecy has become my reality. Although it steals my sleep time, I must admit it’s all worth it. The hours I dedicate have transformed into something profoundly meaningful for me. See point number 3.
ěź. I've created countless memories with the friends I've made in the game. It's surprising especially since I'm naturally an introverted person. I usually keep to myself and wouldn't even answer the phone back in the day. Yet I've really managed to step out of my comfort zone when it comes to socializing and I’m proud of that. Still, I wonder if this newfound confidence will translate into real-life interactions. Deep down I'm still that shy, reserved person, just a bit of a “shy shy cat,” you know? But I have my darksystem family in the game and they bring me so much joy and laughter!
ěŹ. The best thing that happened to me was finally experiencing what it's like to have a brother. I’ve often wished my late brothers were here with me but this world wasn’t meant for them. So Allah blessed me with someone I can call abang. Unfortunately it was only for a short time and Allah took him away from me, from us. The pain is incredibly deep. Even though we’re not connected by blood, he is my brother, both in this world and the next. He showed me the beautiful bond of abang and adik and it’s something I would never trade for anything.
ě¤. After years of struggling with my emotions and constantly fighting against myself, I believe I have finally mastered the art of stoicism. This means I’ve learned how to manage my emotions effectively without falling into the trap of complaining about them or letting them control my actions. It feels almost as if I've become heartless or perhaps more accurately, like the “chill girl” who no longer gives energy to the things that don't contribute positively to my life. My peace has become my top priority; I realize how essential it is for my overall well-being. I’ve adopted a straightforward approach: anything that disrupts my peace, no matter how significant it may seem to others, I simply cut out of my life. It’s a liberating decision to make even if it sometimes feels a bit harsh.
ěĄ. I am currently in a relationship with someone who I am genuinely glad to have met. He stands out as one of the nicest people I've encountered compared to others I've dated in the past. My hope is that this relationship could be the one that lasts even though we’ve been experiencing some challenges lately. I find it difficult to articulate my feelings as certain issues seem to relapse. It creates a longing for solitude; a time when I can be completely by myself. Like I said just now, my peace is my top priority. Lately I've felt a stronger desire to retreat into my own space and have less interaction but I also need him at the same time. This internal conflict feels somewhat frustrating. I’m making a conscious effort to ground myself and approach everything with rationality, trying to find a balance between my need for solitude and my desire to maintain this relationship.
ěš . When I talked about making changes and adjustments in my life earlier, I realized it's time to completely revamp my daily schedule. I’ve noticed that I often spend 5 to 6 hours gaming, which isn’t the most productive use of my time. To foster a more balanced and fulfilling life, I’m planning to reintroduce blogging and reading into my routine. Writing and reading has always been a passion of mine. I'm eager to dive back in. I’ve managed to carve out at least an hour each day for workouts which I consider a significant achievement. Committing to regular exercise was challenging for me in the past and the fact that I've made this a part of my routine makes me feel proud. I followed my own schedule yey! I really need to restructuring my daily to-do list to include these passions of mine with the hope to cultivate a more enriching and rewarding lifestyle.
í. I am currently looking forward to enjoying hearty meals each day. One of my main goals is to significantly reduce my consumption of oily foods and junk foods, replacing them with healthier alternatives that provide the nutrients I need. This transition has proven to be quite challenging for me sebab aku suka makan! However I understand that this change is necessary for my well-being. I also want to shed some excess weight. This has been a recurring struggle for me over the years and I have often found myself falling short of my weight loss goals. This time I am determined to stay focused and keep pushing forward on this journey toward a healthier lifestyle.
꾏. Embracing minimalism has certainly been a challenging journey for me but I remain committed to the pursuit of living with less. Over the past few days I've taken significant steps to declutter my space, parting ways with several items I no longer use or need. This journey toward minimalism is intertwined with my financial habits as well. I’ve noticed a pattern of impulsive buying where I acquire items on a whim without fully considering their value or necessity. This behavior not only contributes to clutter but also hinders my ability to save money effectively. My goal moving forward is to cultivate mindfulness around my purchases, enabling me to prioritize saving and making intentional choices about what I bring into my life.
ě. Last but certainly not least, I have found myself completely captivated by Stranger Things! Over the past few days, I embarked on an exhilarating full series marathon that lasted for about three for four days straight maybe. I've always had a fascination with the concept of parallel universes, but the show's portrayal of the upside down world takes that idea to a whole new level. It’s both eerie and intriguing. My partner was the one who suggested I check out this series and I’m totally hooked!
This year has truly been a transformative journey for me, prompting significant changes within myself that I never anticipated. Im closing this year with a content heart and overflowing bucket of gratitude. I'm looking forward to experiencing more exciting and meaningful moments in the year ahead.
Till then! Xoxo ~
14 August 2024
Being in my 30s makes me want to have a truly peaceful life — less drama, more good vibes. Having a small circle is a bonus, so I don't need to worry about cutting people off except for strengthening my boundaries and protecting my inner peace. But that doesn't really matter cause I am focusing on myself more. I am trying my best to simplify life, which I started way back in my late twenties. The realization kicked in when I was struggling to find happiness in my life. I wrote a post about of thing about happiness last year, and being in that retrospective mode has changed my life.
Slowing down life helps me enjoy the present moment and reduce stress. Here are five things I do to simplify life and make me more at peace. It is just a teeny tiny change, but it still works wonders for me.
1. Practice mindfulness.
It is the act of paying full attention to the present moment without judgment. Live life as it is. This is quite difficult since I tend to reflect on the past and worry about the future. Keep trying until it allows you to focus on the here and now. This will reduce our tendency to rush things through life; in return, we will find ourselves smiling at the end of the day.
2. Simplify your schedule.
Reduce the unnecessary activities in your daily routine by doing fewer things. Manage your time well to accomplish your tasks. This is why I am so into minimalism, especially when it comes to space—home, room, etc. Less stuff means less time to tidy things up and more time for hobbies that bring me joy and fulfillment.
3. Unplug from technology.
Easy peasy tips! Constant connectivity on social media can lead to stress. Take a break from the screens and do something more happier. Don't waste your time reading gossip or commenting on someone's wall about things unrelated to you. It's not worth the time to be a busybody. Your own time is ticking!
4. Engage in slow hobbies.
This one depends on the individual itself. My only slow hobby is reading. I can't do gardening or knitting, so yeah, do what you love and immerse yourself in the process. Don't rush. Let the things you do give you a sense of calm and fulfillment as you enjoy the journey. (but readers dont really go slow when reading, right? :P)
5. Cultivate gratitude.
Learn to acknowledge and appreciate the positive aspects of your life, even the smallest things. It helps you shift your focus from what's missing to what you have and encourages contentment. We tend to ignore the small, treasurable things and be ungrateful, which ends up putting us in a stressful situation. Try to reflect on each thing and unfold the hidden gems.
Simplifying life can lead to greater clarity, less stress, less drama, and more enjoyment. Let's live a life full of balance and be more peaceful.
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Would you simplify your life to be more at peace?
29 May 2024
Reading has always been one of my favourite hobbies. Not everyone can afford to go to many places, but with reading it takes you on wondrous escapism to everywhere; back to the past, to the future, to the wizardry realms and even the world full of knowledge (and ahem a world with the hottest dude). Reading is definitely a legal sorcery everyone can do.
“Life is strange, isn’t it? You can be totally entranced by the glow of something one minute, be willing to sacrifice everything to make it yours, but then a little time passes, or your perspective changes a bit, and all of a sudden you’re shocked at how faded it appears. What was I looking at? You wonder.”
Title: Men Without Women
This book is about men, written by a man for another men to read. Ada 7 short stories about men who have lost their loved one, yang dipermainkan dan yang sik pernah jumpa kekasih hati. Senang cerita buku tok tentang lelaki yang tersakiti and how it hurts them and how it changes them.
All the story revolve around love & feelings but there is nothing romantic about it. Cuma hal hal yang menyedihkan but beautifully written at the same time. Ada part yang susah mok paham maksud sebenar sebab penulis tok memang suka suruh reader nya berfikir. Its my first time reading Haruki’s writing so it will take time to get used to it.
Whatever disagreement i have upon few statements in this book, i cant really elaborate it sebab its 99.9% from lelaki punya pov. Contoh bila Dr Tokai cakap perempuan suka menipu. Bila menipu boleh tidur lena. Sik semua la perempuan camya. Dan lelaki pun camya bah. And they also have this so called independent organ that allows them to tell lies. It’s an individual behaviour that cannot be categorised based on gender. And yes i was damn flabbergasted about what happens to him. He utterly feeling frustrated to the point of starving himself to death. Dipermainkan oleh bini orang. Its kinda sad sebab dah tua bah baruk nya tauk rasa “in love” ya macam ne đĽšđ Tapi salah nya juak lah sebab..sapa suruh bergerek dgn bini org? (do read this book mun mok tauk kenak)
Each short stories has different character with different traits. They feel different things, experience different memories and tackling their love life in different ways. And their understanding about these life-changing events are very unalike.
Para lelaki boleh la baca buku tok to understand what it truly feels like being the ‘men without women’. đ
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The Synopsis
A dazzling new collection of short stories—the first major new work of fiction from the beloved, internationally acclaimed, Haruki Murakami since his #1 best-selling Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage.
Across seven tales, Haruki Murakami brings his powers of observation to bear on the lives of men who, in their own ways, find themselves alone. Here are vanishing cats and smoky bars, lonely hearts and mysterious women, baseball and the Beatles, woven together to tell stories that speak to us all.
Marked by the same wry humor that has defined his entire body of work, in this collection Murakami has crafted another contemporary classic.
Author: Haruki Murakami
Publication Date: April 18, 2014
Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐
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What is your current reading?
Reading has always been one of my favourite hobbies. Not everyone can afford to go to many places, but with reading it takes you on wondrous escapism to everywhere; back to the past, to the future, to the wizardry realms and even the world full of knowledge (and ahem a world with the hottest dude). Reading is definitely a legal sorcery everyone can do.
“It doesn't need to be a big lie—just big enough for one person. And if I can hold on to that lie inside my heart, if I can keep repeating it to myself, it might lead me somewhere. Somewhere else, somewhere different. If I can do that, maybe I'll change a little, and maybe the world will, too.”
Penipuan yang memakan diri. Her declaration open a new world to her — the world of motherhood filled with loneliness. She wanted to save herself, wanted to be treated better by the company and colleagues at her workplace but in the end she got lost in her own deception. This book is about Shibata — a woman in her thirties yang dah menyampah dilayan kedak ‘bibik’ oleh colleague lelaki nya di opis. Nya dah fedup disuruh polah kopi, kemas pantry, buang sampah polah ya polah tok etc yang bukan kerja nya pun. She finally had enough bila ada one of her colleague merokok dekat nya and she decides to make a statement saying that she’s pregnant. But she’s not! But everyone simply believe it.
The lies she's been fed to her colleagues has put her in such a good yet difficult situation at the same time. She’s getting into delulu/confusing state when she is now expecting the real baby in her tummy. Siap pergi real medical checkup lagik. Bergaruk palak juak aku how comeee? Doktor pun aok2 ajak aihh.
The fake pregnancy of Shibata unfold the new experience for her. Things getting harder and Shibata appeared unwell and mentally wrecked. From being a lonely woman who is looking for a way out of her mundane life due to long working hours, she is now becoming the lonely pregnant woman that has to go through things alone. This part is sedih sebenarnya. The author kinda exposing the sad truth behind the journey of expecting mother yang buat semua benda sorang2 — terpaksa go through the pregnancy process tanpa suami disisi — sik kesahlah atas sebab kerja hakiki mahupun sebab lelaki ya siktauk erti ataupun tiba-tiba pregnant macam Shibata tok đ
Such luxury, such loneliness. She begins to believe her own lie and she has to face the consequences. This book is weirdly interesting. It touches on many relatable things in life. Setiap apa yang kita polah pasti ada kesannya. Jadi fikirlah sebaik-baiknya sebelum buat sesuatu.
The Synopsis
When thirty-four-year-old Ms. Shibata gets a new job in Tokyo to escape sexual harassment at her old one, she finds that, as the only woman at her new workplace--a company that manufactures cardboard tubes--she is expected to do all the menial tasks. One day she announces that she can't clear away her colleagues' dirty cups--because she's pregnant and the smell nauseates her. The only thing is . . . Ms. Shibata is not pregnant.
Pregnant Ms. Shibata doesn't have to serve coffee to anyone. Pregnant Ms. Shibata isn't forced to work overtime. Pregnant Ms. Shibata rests, watches TV, takes long baths, and even joins an aerobics class for expectant mothers. But pregnant Ms. Shibata also has a nine-month ruse to keep up. Helped along by towel-stuffed shirts and a diary app on which she can log every stage of her "pregnancy," she feels prepared to play the game for the long haul. Before long, though, the hoax becomes all-absorbing, and the boundary between her lie and her life begins to dissolve.
A surreal and wryly humorous cultural critique, Diary of a Void is bound to become a landmark in feminist world literature.
Title: Diary of A Void
Author: Emi Yagi
Publication Date: January 1, 2020
Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐
─── .・。.・゜✭・.・✫・゜・。. ───
What is your current reading?
18 February 2024
It’s sad but crazy at the same time or should I say it’s crazy but sad?
I just finished this book in one sitting yeay. It is The Woman Before Me by Natalia Aivy Dibit. Rasanya macam first time baca novel melayu yang genre psycho-thriller. Gotta say the lovey dovey part is a bit cringey padahal dialogue biasa jak pun. Tak biasa letteww.
But heres my honest review. I love the plot of the story. Intrigued enough and buat i keep on wanting to read the next page. Mok gilak tauk apa sebenarnya yang terjadi in that big house and with all the people especially to Tracy. Baca punya baca ternyata the truth is quite shocking. Like i did not expect any of it kecuali part main female character. Sampai begitu sekali penangannyaa.. Mary pulak menyakitkan hati bikin geram but ada few scenes quite funny, like eh whats this lady punya masalah eh? Oh rupa-rupanya ada sesuatu disebalik ke-annoying-an-nya. Actually ada few more scenes that will make you go “eh wait what?”, “jap jap what actually happened?”, “eh bodohnya perempuan tok..”.
I didnt read the synopsis jadi my brain work a little harder berfikir ‘why and how’ all the way through the book. I have no idea buku tok pasal apa but just a bit crumb ‘basah ketiak tunggu next part’ dari posting penulis. My curiosity rising at its best and i do love penulisan yang macam tok. It takes me on a rollercoaster of emotions. It’s sad but crazy at the same time or should i say its crazy but sad? Demi keinginan ada jak manusia yang sanggup buat benda yang sik sepatutnya.
Overall, I enjoy reading the book! First sebab sik membosankan. Once you read terus rasa mok habiskan terus jak. Tak menyabar betolll. Second sebab psycho-thriller is one of my fav book genre.
─── .・。.・゜✭・.・✫・゜・。. ───
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